When i think about the mechanism in me which governs my love to few people, I am not trying to chase a mordern love which existance is mostly restricted to male and female in common definition. Who are they for them i feel the love, is first question for me? So the next, why?
Let me take you to our real and dialy life most entertaining part, movies. Yes, we are thinking about same bollywood movie all stories are full of almost all love by nature. All incidence, co-incidence and accidens are so prevelent and are shown by different means. Let me take you to the end of movie. What it is really? In general we say its based of happy ending, hope filled philosphy. The person who sees, can take, that end of everything is good no matter how long we have to suffer. One more message which not so easily visible, though Indian producer never try ot keep it the same way. Love exists. If a trace through a typical story, their use to love between two persons. Suddenly there are so many unpredicatble and non-favourable situations comes in that love to face, which is casted by different behaviour of the persons in love or some other characters. And those situations are all because of someone behaviour. whether it is of the two in love or other persons. One thing i should I have told you earlier, are you thinking about love of a male and female or have you with, any person to any be it male or female. Yes, it can be love of two brothers, brother and sister, two friends of different place, and the list is long. You can pick any and then can feel the love.
How can we forget the divine love of Radha-Krishna, Krishna-Sudama? As a read though stories related to them from my childhood. I never read Radha had love for Krishna's color, raas lila or his All Mighty. She loved him no matter how life of krishna gone through with different phases. Sudama's is also and example. We can not forget Mira, who had never seen Krishna in so-called reality. And she was not none to any behaviour of Krishna in reality.
One day while chat with my friend and I asked him. Whom do you love most and why? And no surprise for any of us as he was bachelor. He had a list of own faimly members and few more People. With good practical explainations we had convienced me he loves them. But he was not conveinced why he does not have love for others, like any of us. Though in our life we meet different people they are good and bad. We use to spent long time with few of them. Oftenly some of have good and bad experience with the people we met. Then what is different it those we love and those we dont. Or is it in me, you. As i agree we all are human being, goodness and badness are just either side of coin and all of has goods and bads upto certain extent. He explained to me, usually we do not love those people who had done bad with us. But is there something in us to restrict to see the bad in the one we love. So it is not a matter that what poeple doing with us and so it never helps us to decide our love to the people. Is it just theri existance for us? And there is no condition for their existance for us, as we define their existance our way. And one expamle of it is, people love those who are not in this world anymore.
So do we make choice of love on behaviour or existance, for that love we do not keep any condition. Only we keep the definition of existance for us and love forever. No conditions, thats why we can never forget the love for a person in us. If not feeling the same think whom do you love? Not for any favour, not for any condition, not for any circumstances and not for anything thing realted to behavioural aspect or us. If you do not find any one, you must be lonly.
You can think I am trying to convience my point, and same time different people can have different prospect of seeing things and experiences so does the point of view. I am not arguing, but truth have one and only one face. So out of we two one have to be true and other have to think again as he have not used mind in proper frame.
Yes, you can have question for me, why do we feel the pain?
How many of us believe a human have different dimensions? Do you? For those who believe love is one dimension mostly governed by our soul and we discussed about it. And those who are looking for answer to pain can reach me we will discuss and try to understand, why do we get pain for love when love all for happiness, what covers the joy?
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
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