Monday, April 12, 2010

stay fit

Good look is the one thing related to how well we are managing our physical appearance. Off course being slim and fit is a part of it.

I would rather like to think a bit before jumping to any conclusion. What do we think, if et al we think; about the person who is physically smart looking. The person gives some time to himself for his physical appearance; he for the least knows how to manage his look. What about other things about the person is still not known? And what about those who are fat, how many of think fat guys are usually lazy. Yes, you can see this can be a assumption. If some of us do not have habit of assuming, than in first place, we can say we do not know anything about the fat person.

Do we believe even when we do not think, one part of brain thinks? If it is difficult to understand, think why do we dream while sleeping?

When we see a person, one part of brain becomes busy analyzing, and if it finds the person is slim and fit. It can lead to two decisions; one is the person knows how to manage his looks or the person is for the least aware of “how to manage”, and disciplined in some way or other. And this increases the confidence in that person. Second is person may or may not know how to manage, it becomes ambiguous and difficult to conclude. And with first case, if leave rest of things than a slim and fit person have 50 %( bit of probability or maths) chances of getting first level of confidence. Fair possibility is fat person/ bad shaped will lose these early bird prize of 50% chances of getting initial confidence. And then we think the person next to me who is judging me may not be skilled or have good understanding of anything. But think in the way it is given and cannot be changed, like the person who is interviewing you for new job thinks in that way, person judging is prospective spouse or he/she is customer of yours. So are we going to say they are unskilled in some sense and “NO” to all of them? Fairly possible, but is this some sort of complaining. And if the answer is yes, then these people are skilled enough to provoke negativity in ourselves and we are so weak to stop it. Wait this does not stops here, we have one weak point. Here if we both agree, then what’s point in knowing and living with weakness, without giving a try to figure out a weakness an get rid of it.

I broadly categories the people who ask us to stay fit in two; one who are knowingly or unknowingly showing our weakness. Second who indirectly say, they care for you and like to see you without weakness. And yes we have not discussed about the other health related benefits on the way to stay slim and fit.

Monday, April 5, 2010

A day few months back

I am siting alone in drawing room, have everything in place TV is on but mute(something staring on me but not saying anything , this is some thing good about paid things and services they work as your wish). Laptop is on and singing(i can only hear what i want no matter what people says to me, i am free to do what i want), windows are wide open(so many friends and people i met told me it's always good to be open from inside), kitchen is full as maid came and cooked as per i suggested......suddenly i on the volume of TV and start watching VEER ZARA, a great movie people say so....i dont like to watch SRK movies other then the recent one CHAK DE INDIA, specially because of one man for all showmanship i stuck to the movie it is showing Veer Partap Singh in some jail of Pakistan and Rani Mukheerji as his lawyer trying to help him to get out of jail after 22 years of prisonment alleged for being a member of RAW(Indian intelligency agency) and arrest with two passports named on veer and rakesh...what next Rani trying to conveince SRK to put name of Preity and this way he can be saved and set free to go to his country, inturn SRK conveincing him that he spent his 22 years in jail just because Preity is already married and if he will use her name as a proof that he is veer........shit!! i got into it...all full of typical Bollywoodian drama...suddenly i felt my eyes are wet, hell!!! what went wrong? how comes tears in my eyes? i dont think i am stong enough to hold them but actully i dont have much of it....i lost it some where in past, but yes something is going behind the scene, somene in me is crying, everything is justified in my life i am mature enuf to handle myself in situations, i have good money so that i dont need to cry for anything, enuf of friends to njoy with, i am sitting on my happiness tripod(1. comsumption of productivity, 2. intimacy, 3. hope) den why these tears....i think they want to role out at times but i stopped them with my own worldly explainations, conveinced my self for that...and stopped them not to come out....every moment i justfied worng of me as right they wanted to come out but again i stopped, saying this is the way to be stronger man.....