Good look is the one thing related to how well we are managing our physical appearance. Off course being slim and fit is a part of it.
I would rather like to think a bit before jumping to any conclusion. What do we think, if et al we think; about the person who is physically smart looking. The person gives some time to himself for his physical appearance; he for the least knows how to manage his look. What about other things about the person is still not known? And what about those who are fat, how many of think fat guys are usually lazy. Yes, you can see this can be a assumption. If some of us do not have habit of assuming, than in first place, we can say we do not know anything about the fat person.
Do we believe even when we do not think, one part of brain thinks? If it is difficult to understand, think why do we dream while sleeping?
When we see a person, one part of brain becomes busy analyzing, and if it finds the person is slim and fit. It can lead to two decisions; one is the person knows how to manage his looks or the person is for the least aware of “how to manage”, and disciplined in some way or other. And this increases the confidence in that person. Second is person may or may not know how to manage, it becomes ambiguous and difficult to conclude. And with first case, if leave rest of things than a slim and fit person have 50 %( bit of probability or maths) chances of getting first level of confidence. Fair possibility is fat person/ bad shaped will lose these early bird prize of 50% chances of getting initial confidence. And then we think the person next to me who is judging me may not be skilled or have good understanding of anything. But think in the way it is given and cannot be changed, like the person who is interviewing you for new job thinks in that way, person judging is prospective spouse or he/she is customer of yours. So are we going to say they are unskilled in some sense and “NO” to all of them? Fairly possible, but is this some sort of complaining. And if the answer is yes, then these people are skilled enough to provoke negativity in ourselves and we are so weak to stop it. Wait this does not stops here, we have one weak point. Here if we both agree, then what’s point in knowing and living with weakness, without giving a try to figure out a weakness an get rid of it.
I broadly categories the people who ask us to stay fit in two; one who are knowingly or unknowingly showing our weakness. Second who indirectly say, they care for you and like to see you without weakness. And yes we have not discussed about the other health related benefits on the way to stay slim and fit.
I would rather like to think a bit before jumping to any conclusion. What do we think, if et al we think; about the person who is physically smart looking. The person gives some time to himself for his physical appearance; he for the least knows how to manage his look. What about other things about the person is still not known? And what about those who are fat, how many of think fat guys are usually lazy. Yes, you can see this can be a assumption. If some of us do not have habit of assuming, than in first place, we can say we do not know anything about the fat person.
Do we believe even when we do not think, one part of brain thinks? If it is difficult to understand, think why do we dream while sleeping?
When we see a person, one part of brain becomes busy analyzing, and if it finds the person is slim and fit. It can lead to two decisions; one is the person knows how to manage his looks or the person is for the least aware of “how to manage”, and disciplined in some way or other. And this increases the confidence in that person. Second is person may or may not know how to manage, it becomes ambiguous and difficult to conclude. And with first case, if leave rest of things than a slim and fit person have 50 %( bit of probability or maths) chances of getting first level of confidence. Fair possibility is fat person/ bad shaped will lose these early bird prize of 50% chances of getting initial confidence. And then we think the person next to me who is judging me may not be skilled or have good understanding of anything. But think in the way it is given and cannot be changed, like the person who is interviewing you for new job thinks in that way, person judging is prospective spouse or he/she is customer of yours. So are we going to say they are unskilled in some sense and “NO” to all of them? Fairly possible, but is this some sort of complaining. And if the answer is yes, then these people are skilled enough to provoke negativity in ourselves and we are so weak to stop it. Wait this does not stops here, we have one weak point. Here if we both agree, then what’s point in knowing and living with weakness, without giving a try to figure out a weakness an get rid of it.
I broadly categories the people who ask us to stay fit in two; one who are knowingly or unknowingly showing our weakness. Second who indirectly say, they care for you and like to see you without weakness. And yes we have not discussed about the other health related benefits on the way to stay slim and fit.
2 comments:
Damn man....
Some crazy analysis...twisted thought process but good....what is the conclusion though...i somehow cannot summarize it.....
so are we saying the slim over fat gets 50% more chance on early bird prize...
second, does this say anything about the person who judged ?????
Anyone in front of you is observer can try to judge you. We can not change everyone. But surly we validate the concerns they have about us. If it is valid take action
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